Saturday, August 30, 2008

How Do You Treat Others?

Who likes reading forwarded emails? Count me out. Why? I get a lot of them, they're too lengthy, and I seem to keep getting the same ones over and over again. Most times, I delete without reading, depending on what's on the subject line. However, the forwarded message below captured my attention, because there is a lot of truth in it. So, not only did I read it, I'm also posting it to serve as a good reminder for all of us :)

Today's the beginning of a 3-day weekend. Are we going to spend our time figuring out how we can enjoy ourselves or are we going to get up and serve others with joy in our hearts? This weekend (and beyond), think of ways you can make a difference in someone's life. If you do it for God, your impact will be eternal.

Enjoy reading...

(5) lessons to make you think about the way we treat people.


1 - First Important Lesson - Cleaning Lady.


During my second month of college, our professor
gave us a pop quiz I was a conscientious student
and had breezed through the questions until I read
the last one:

'What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?'

Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen the
cleaning woman several times. She was tall,
dark-haired and in her 50s, but how would I know her name?

I handed in my paper, leaving the last question
blank. Just before class ended, one student asked if
the last question would count toward our quiz grade.

'Absolutely,' said the professor. 'In your careers,
you will meet many people. All are significant. They
deserve your attention and care, even if all you do
is smile and say 'hello.'

I've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her
name was Dorothy.

2. - Second Important Lesson - Pickup in the Rain


One night, at 11:3 0 p.m., an older African American
woman was standing on the side of an Alabama highway
trying to endure a lashing rainstorm. Her car had
broken down and she desperately needed a ride.
Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car.
A young white man stopped to help her, generally
unheard of in those conflict-filled 60s.. The man
took her to safety, helped her get assistance and
put her into a taxicab.

She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down his
address and thanked him. Seven days went by and a
knock came on the man's door. To his surprise, a
giant console color TV was delivered to his home. A
special note was attached..

It read:
'Thank you so much for assisting me on the highway
the other night. The rain drenched not only my
clothes, but also my spirits. Then you came along.
Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying
husband's bedside just before he passed away... God
bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving
others.'

Sincerely, Mrs. Nat King Cole.

3 - Third Important Lesson - Always remember those who serve.


In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less,
a 10-year-old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and
sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in front of him.

'How much is an ice cream sundae?' he asked.

'Fifty cents,' replied the waitress.

The little boy pulled is hand out of his pocket and
studied the coins in it.

'Well, how much is a plain dish of ice cream?' he inquired.

By now more people were waiting for a table and the
waitress was growing impatient.

'Thirty-five cents,' she brusquely replied.

The little boy again counted his coins.

'I'll have the plain ice cream,' he said.

The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on
the table and walked away. The boy finished the ice
cream, paid the cashier and left. When the waitress
came back, she began to cry as she wiped down the
table. There, placed neatly beside the empty dish,
were two nickels and five pennies..

You see, he couldn't have the sundae, because he had
to have enough left to leave her a tip.


4 - Fourth Important Lesson. - The obstacle in Our Path.


In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a
roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see if
anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the
king's wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by
and simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the
King for not keeping the roads clear, but none did
anything about getting the stone out of the way.

Then a peasant came along carrying a load of
vegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, the
peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the
stone to the side of the road. After much pushing
and straining, he finally succeeded. After the
peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed
a purse lying in the road where the boulder had
been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note
from the King indicating that the gold was for the
person who removed the boulder from the roadway. The
peasant learned what many of us never understand!

Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve our condition.

5 - Fifth Important Lesson - Giving When it Counts...


Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a
hospital, I got to know a little girl named Liz who
was suffering from a rare & serious disease. Her only
chance of recovery appeared to be a blood
transfusion from her 5-year old brother, who had
miraculously survived the same disease and had
developed the antibodies needed to combat the
illness.. The doctor explained the situation to her
little brother, and asked the little boy if he would
be willing to give his blood to his sister.

I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a
deep breath and saying, 'Yes I'll do it if it will
save her' As the transfusion progressed, he lay in
bed next to his sister and smiled, as we all did,
seeing the colour returning to her cheek. Then his
face grew pale and his smile faded.

He looked up at the doctor and asked with a
trembling voice, 'Will I start to die right away'.

Being young, the little boy had misunderstood the
doctor; he thought he was going to have to give his
sister all of his blood in order to save her but he had chosen to save her anyway.


'Work like you don't need the money, love like you've never been hurt, and dance like you do when nobody's watching.'

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Today's Heartache

This past Saturday, I blogged about "A Single Mom's Dream Come True", without knowing King Solomon was going to be the same topic of discussion during today's Bible Study at Palm Springs Drive Baptist Church. I can't say enough about the message being so timely!

Today marks the very first time I received a phone call from Diego's school (he's in 1st Grade now) that I had to immediately stop what I was doing at work, and show up at the school office to enforce some serious disciplinary action on my child. Most parents dread such a day, while others are already used to it. Nonetheless, it is a very unpleasant yet important experience to go through with your child. For me, it truly was a teaching opportunity for both of us. Parenting is not easy. Adjustments need to be made, evaluated, and reinforced...and this applies to both parent(s) and child.

Despite it all, I'm thankful that the offense was only "excessive talking" and "disobedience" (in terms of not knowing when to stop talking) vs. beating up another child, etc. Regardless, I felt horrible deep down inside. I felt like bursting into tears from the time I had left the office, arrived at the school, had a heart-to-heart talk with Diego, and back. It's so easy to get emotional and convince yourself, "I don't know what else to do!" I seriously wanted to cry, but I couldn't. I couldn't even speak. No wonder King Solomon said what he said: "But I am only a little child and do not know how to carry out my duties."

I sure felt like that little child, lost and totally helpless, and wanted someone to hold my hand. I wanted a shoulder to cry on, to lean on, but couldn't find one (or refused to find one). Holding back my emotions throughout the day only intensified what I was truly feeling inside.

So tonight, during my quiet time, I come to my Heavenly Father to pour out my emotions. Parenting isn't easy, and it's only the beginning. I'm now only starting to experience the different (and evolving) stages of parenting myself, and it is such a huge responsibility. I certainly don't want to give in or give up. During such times, it's much easier for spectators to pass judgment on you instead of offering a helping hand or a listening ear.

But then again, the correct response isn't to complain because that won't get me anywhere. Just within 6 months of God miraculously delivering the Israelites out of Egypt, they complained that they were thirsty. They blamed their leader, Moses, instead of going directly to God to ask for help (or even thinking to offer Moses any help)...instead of trusting God and knowing that He will supply their every need. They quickly forgot how He had delivered them from Pharaoh's cruel hand, and now they're doubting that He will quench their thirst! In the end, God still gave them their request...however, I'm sure they missed out on a great blessing for doubting God, complaining, and not serving.

It's so easy to judge the Israelites after reading the story. It's so easy to call them selfish, vile, and ungrateful. But, if we look inwardly, we'll see how we can be just like that in our everyday lives. When faced with difficulty, i.e. parenting challenges, I can easily complain, turn to someone else (instead of God), blame that person for whatever reason, and doubt God. But, I don't want to miss God's blessing. I already know I can't do this on my own...which only means, I have no reason to go into the "Woe-is-me" mode. Instead, I should cast my burden at His feet (1 Peter 5:7). My problem is God's problem! We're on the same team! Therefore, I must be confident that if He's on my side, it has already been taken care of! I just need to trust Him to give me wisdom to know what to do, for His glory.

I'm pretty sure there will be more challenges up ahead that may even seem insurmountable...but, my God is greater than any problem...and I know He will hold my hand and see me through each one of them.

So, how was your day today? Was it challenging? How did you handle it? Or, how could you have done things differently? Did you enlist God's help in dealing with today's challenges?

My Dwelling Place

Psalm 90:1 states,
"LORD, Thou hast been our dwelling place in all generations."

Ask Yourself...

If God is my Dwelling Place:
  1. What does this mean to me?
  2. How does this change my outlook in life?
  3. How must I then act and live out my life?
  4. How must I treat my dwelling place?

Saturday, August 23, 2008

A Single Mom's Dream Come True

Written by Lori Little

Imagine the Lord waking you up in the middle of the night after a long hard day and saying; "Ask for whatever you want me to give you". What would you say? What would you ask him for?

With the financial difficulties some single moms face, would you ask to win the lottery? Or how about a very long vacation on a tropical island to finally rest and relax? Would you ask for a great house with a nanny, butler, cook, housekeeper gardener and pool included?

All of those things sound really great don't they? The question I want to ask you today is, "What do you think God would want you to say"? Remember, God looks at our hearts, not our outside. What is inside your heart today as you think about what you would ask for?

I would like to tell you what Solomon asked for in this very same situation. In 1Kings, chapter 3, God woke Solomon up in the middle of the night and asked him the very same question I asked you; "Ask for whatever you want me to give you". Let's look through scripture and see what his answer was.

In verses 7-9 of chapter 3, Solomon replies to God; "Now, O Lord my God, you have made your servant king in place of my father David. But I am only a little child and do not know how to carry out my duties. Your servant is here among the people you have chosen, a great people too. So give your servant a discerning heart to govern your people and to distinguish between right and wrong. For who is able to govern this great people of yours?

All Solomon asked for was a discerning heart to know how to handle the situation he was in.

How often have you told God that you feel like a little child and don't know how to carry out your duties as a single mom? If you are like me, it's most often during the day. The only thing I know to do is pray for wisdom in order to lead myself and my son, and to make right decisions.

What comfort there is in knowing that God will give us the very wisdom we need to carry out the job that God has for us to do. Asking God for wisdom allows him to do what He wants to do through us, not what we think he should do for us.

Let's move on in scripture to verses 10-12. "The Lord was pleased that Solomon had asked for this. So God said to him, "Since you have asked for this and not for long life or wealth for yourself, nor have asked for the death of your enemies but for discernment in administering justice, I will do what you have asked. I will give you a wise and discerning heart, so that there will never have been anyone like you, nor will there ever be.

Because Solomon asked for wisdom and a discerning heart and not wealth, the Lord also gave him long life and riches. Now this does not promise that God will bless you with riches if you ask for wisdom. He does however give us everything that we need according to His kingdom. Matthew 6:33 says, "But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.

When we set our sights on what God wants for us, he will satisfy our every need. Focusing on what we think we need to be happy and the riches of this world causes confusion. We never seem to be content with what we have.

When God blesses us with wisdom, he gives us a great gift. He gives us the ability to understand what is best for us. He also blesses you with the strength to carry out his will. Not only must we receive wisdom, but we must also act upon it. God calls us to be wise in all areas of our life. Applying this wisdom to every detail of your life demonstrates great discernment to lead your children and take care of your home.

If you did not answer the question that I asked you the way Solomon answered God, ask God to forgive you. Ask him to change your heart to want only what he wants for your life. Pray to receive the wisdom you need to carry out his plan for you as a single mom. Then, please the Lord through worship and thanksgiving and act on what you have received.


Lori Little,
A Woman By Design ministry's founder, is the former Director of John C. Maxwell's THRiVE!, Becoming A Woman Of Influence.

Monday, August 18, 2008

Gabriel


My 2-year-old,
Timothy Gabriel
One of God's greatest gifts
A living demonstration of His love and grace
A gift I never asked for
A gift I don't deserve
A gift I never thought that I'd want and love so much beyond measure
A gift I'll always treasure

"I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth."
3 John 4

Feel Like Complaining?

Psalm 77:3 states, "I remembered God, and was troubled: I complained, and my spirit was overwhelmed. Selah."

I can't deny: I feel overwhelmed!!! It's one of those days. I just had an open and honest conversation with my Father. I desperately need help! My first prayer was all about I, me, and myself. Shame on me!

After pouring my heart to Him, He gently brought many things to remembrance. I can't believe how blessed I am! I feel so humbled, inadequate, and unworthy. At the same time, I feel honored that God chose me to receive such blessings! What a great God! He loves me so much! He is all I need. He continues to bless me with many options, many outlets, and a myriad of unclaimed treasures. God has done so much for me, that my heart can sing: "Take my life and let it be, consecrated Lord to thee...."

This life is not mine, but His. May He use me and what I have for His purpose, for His glory. Nothing more, nothing less. That's all I ask. That's my heart's desire. What's yours???

Thursday, August 14, 2008

Feel Like Giving Up?

Psalm 66 provides a great illustration on how God answers prayer, and how we are to praise and thank Him especially during those times. It also mentions how we are "tried like silver" while waiting for His answer and/or deliverance, and that there is hope in the end (He brought us "out into a wealthier place").

In this chapter, the writer was remembering God's rescue of the Israelites by parting the Red Sea during the Exodus. God saved the Israelites then, and He continues to save His people today.

Psalm 66:18-20 states:
"If I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear me: but verily God hath heard me; He hath attended to the voice of my prayer. Blessed be God, which hath not turned away my prayer, nor His mercy from me."

Do you have any "iniquity" in your heart that is hindering God's answer to your prayer? Are you harboring any bitterness, hatred, jealousy, or anger in your heart? Have a conversation with God today to clear that out. And, when you feel like giving up, don't! A wise man once said, "You wouldn't want to find yourself giving up on the day before God blessed." God gives hope. He is our Hope.

As Job said when he was going through a lot of trials, "But he knoweth the way that I take: when he hath tried me, I shall come forth as gold." Job 23:10

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Today's Scripture Passage

Psalm 105:1-5

O give thanks unto the LORD; call upon his name: make known his deeds among the people.

Sing unto him, sing psalms unto him: talk ye of all his wondrous works.

Glory ye in his holy name: let the heart of them rejoice that seek the LORD.

Seek the LORD, and his strength: seek his face evermore.

Remember his marvelous works that he hath done; his wonders, and the judgments of his mouth;

Miracles Happen In Hawai'i!

A message to our church family ("ohana") from our Pastor from Ohana Baptist Church in Honolulu, Hawaii:

Dear Ohana,

In Exodus 14, the nation of Israel was caught between a “rock and a hard place”. On one side was Pharaoh who had hardened his heart against God and the Jews and on the other side was the Red Sea. There was no where to turn, no where to go. Did God bring them this far just
to leave them stuck in the middle like this?

That is the way we have felt for the last year. Caught between a landlord who had hardened his heart against us and a flooded economy with no affordable land available to us. Our landlord has made it clear to us for the past few years that they did not like us and did not want us here. They have done everything they could to make life difficult. I have been told many times in no uncertain terms that we cannot stay beyond the end of our lease and that they would like us to
move sooner rather than later. There has been no question in their desire for us to go and “good riddance”!

You will also remember that we have been looking for new property for the last two years and have found none. We thought we had found what we needed more than once (in fact, in one case, we were within days of closing). In each case, God clearly closed the door and did not allow us to go forward. I began asking God “What are you doing? If we do not find a place soon, where are we going to go?”

In Isaiah 55:8-9, the Bible says that God’s ways are not our ways. In Exodus 14:13-14, God told the people to “fear ye not, stand still and see the salvation of the Lord, which He will shew you this day”. It was at this point that God did a miracle and provided them a way to go.

I believe that God has also provided us with a miracle. Instead of providing us with a place to go, God took the “King’s (of Cycle City) heart…in the hand of the Lord, as the rivers of water:” and He turned it to do His will. (Pr. 21:1) This week our landlord offered us a two year extension on our lease! This was a complete turn around from everything that we had been told and was absolutely unexpected. I wish I had the words to explain to you how much of a
miracle this truly is.

I feel like I have been holding my breath for six months and now I can breathe again. This relieves the pressure of not knowing where we are going and what we are going to do. It allows us time to look for property, especially with the economy changing; new space will open up and prices will go down. Cycle City has even indicated that they are willing to consider a long term lease.

Thank you for your prayers and support throughout this whole process. It was a very difficult time. I will be honest and tell you that my faith waivered many times as I wondered what God was doing. I did not expect Him to do this.

In Exodus 15, the nation of Israel spent time praising God for His deliverance. I hope you will join us in praising Him for His faithfulness even when we are not. October 5th is our 22nd
Anniversary. Our goal is a $1000.00 for each year of God’s blessing. Would you consider helping us to reach that goal in praise to Him? We will still need to raise money for when God gives us our own property.

One other note before I close. Some will ask about the Preschool and the Smith’s staying. At this point, there is no way of starting up the Preschool again this year. We have already turned in our license, our teachers have found other jobs, our parents have foundother schools and the Smiths have already packed and shipped their stuff. We must believe in and trust in the sovereignty of God. He could have changed hearts at Cycle City six months ago and we would not have made this decision. No one here wanted the Preschool to close or the Smiths to leave, but God has a plan and purpose for all of this. If you have not sent a goodbye note for them or if you would like to send a love offering, please do it now as they leave on August 18th.

God Bless you and thank you again for being a part of our miracle here in Hawaii.

Aloha In Christ,

Wayne T. Surface

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What's even more interesting: hours before reading this email, I was about to contact our church secretary at Palm Springs Drive Baptist Church to ask why "Ohana Baptist Church - Property Situation" had been removed from our Prayer List for the week. After reading this email, it no longer matters how the entry got deleted. None of us here in Florida knew what was going on, but God did! He truly answers prayer, and it's even more humbling when we see Him answer and move in miraculous ways that none of us could have ever possibly imagined! God is great!!! He truly never fails us; He never will!

Sunday, August 10, 2008

A Prayer of Repentance

What is your attitude after being convicted of your sin? Are you truly sorry, or are you only sorry because you got caught? Do you find yourself trying to cover up and, as a result, your actions only resulted in committing even more sins? Or, do you rebel?

King David is a great illustration. After committing adultery with Bathsheba and learning that she had conceived, he pulled her husband Uriah out of battle, tried to get him drunk, and when all else failed, plotted Uriah's death.

In Psalm 51, God used the prophet Nathan to condemn King David of his sins. David clearly knew the magnitude of what he had done, and fell on his face as he asked God for forgiveness. This book (Psalm 51) is the perfect example of a true prayer of repentance.

King David knew that God was not interested in sacrifice or peace offering, even if it came from the king! God clearly does not need our money or possessions or even good works ("sacrifices of righteousness"). All these offerings don't count unless we first come to Him with "a broken spirit, a broken and contrite heart". Then and only then can we truly please Him with our offerings that give praise and glory to His name.

As imperfect human beings, we sin on a daily basis. Only a hypocrite will deny this! King David's sin may sound immensely great to us, but every sin is equal in God's eyes. Therefore, we must come to God in repentance in the same fashion with a humble and teachable heart. Today in church, as you put money in the offering basket, do you think it will count? Check your heart, first. Check your motives. Is your heart right with God? If not, read and apply the principles and truths found in Psalm 51.

Verses 16 - 19 state: "For thou desirest not sacrifice; else would I give it: thou delightest not in burnt offering. The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit: a broken and a contrite heart, O God, thou wilt not despise. Do good in thy good pleasure unto Zion: build thou the walls of Jerusalem. Then shalt thou be pleased with the sacrifices of righteousness, with burnt offering and whole burnt offering: then shall they offer bullocks upon thine altar."

Obviously, YOU are more important to God than anything else. He wants our obedience vs. our sacrifice. He wants our heart.

In the end, God still blessed King David because he decided to first offer his heart to God, in repentance. In contrast, King Saul did the opposite, and the Bible clearly points out that the results were also the opposite.

1 Samuel 15:22-23 states: "Samuel said, Has the LORD as much delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices in obeying the voice of the LORD? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to heed than the fat of rams. For rebellion is as the sin of divination, and insubordination is as iniquity and idolatry because you have rejected the word of the LORD, He has also rejected you from being king."

Chapter 15 ended with very painful words upon King Saul's death: "And the LORD regretted that He had made Saul king over Israel."

The first two kings in the Bible undoubtedly committed horrible sins, but both are remembered very differently. David was known as a "man after God's own heart", while Saul was known to be a king God regretted. How do you want to be remembered?

Saturday, August 9, 2008

Kona Ironman

Friday, August 8, 2008

The Greatest Race

As the Olympic Games open in Beijing, my thoughts go back to Eric Liddell, a former champion immortalized for his surprising gold medal victory in the 400 meters during the 1924 Games in Paris. A year after his triumph, Liddell went to China, where he spent the last 20 years of his life as a missionary teacher and rural pastor. There he ran the greatest race of his life against opponents we all know—difficult circumstances, war, uncertainty, and disease.

Crowded into a Japanese internment camp with 1,500 other people, Eric lived out the words he had paraphrased from 1 Corinthians 13:6-8— “Love is never glad when others go wrong. Love finds no pleasure in injustice, but rejoices in the truth. Love is always slow to expose, it knows how to be silent. Love is always eager to believe the best about a person. Love is full of hope, full of patient endurance; love never fails.”

Eric served the others in camp, whether carrying water for the elderly or refereeing games for the teens. When he died of a brain tumor in February 1945, one internee described him as a man “who lived better than he preached.”

In life’s most difficult race, Eric Liddell crossed the finish line victorious through love. — David C. McCasland

O for a love that knows no end,
A love that is strong and pure,
Reaching afar to both foe and friend,
So deep it will always endure. —R. De Haan

Love enables us to walk fearlessly, to run confidently, and to live victoriously.

Source: Our Daily Bread


Sunday, August 3, 2008

Animal Lover or Animal Hater?

As with everything else, there are pros and cons to growing up with a bunch of boys at home and in school. What makes it even more interesting: quite a few of them were not very friendly with animals...especially with cats. Somehow, these boys seemed to have had a lot of fun while trying to count the number of lives a cat truly had. Whenever these boys were around, my mom would always remind them:

"The righteous regardeth the life of his beast." Proverbs 12:10

Here's an interesting video about a "pet" from the cat family. After watching this video, pause and think about what the reaction of this "pet" would have been if it had been raised by the same boys whom I had grown up with. What if this "cat" were to think about applying the principle "What you sow, you reap" in the same way the boys had tested the theory "A cat has 9 lives"? Use your imagination.

In any case, this is a video worth watching and sharing.

Saturday, August 2, 2008

While Waiting...

Doing God's will sometimes means waiting patiently. While we wait, we can love God, serve others, and tell others about Him. Your choice. Your reward. Read: Psalm 40.